To answer my own thread. I am not. I thought i'd be married with kids by 26 but it's 10 years later and i'm neither of those things. I never knew what career i'd go into tbh, it's not something I was ever given guidance on other than, "be a doctor" which never appealed to me. I'm reasonably happy with how my career sorta turned out despite a lack of direction but I do feel "behind" my peers on the whole starting a family front. It's a weird conflict in my brain, I value freedom a lot (for various reasons). Marriage isn't necessarily appealing to me either but that one integral part of being an adult seems to be missing from my life and I do feel somewhat insecure about it when people ask me if I have kids etc.