I'm not trying to encourage people play in obnoxious and cringe ways but I think there's a bit of tone deafness here
If a player is sincerely distraught e.g. clearly not faking it for pity points or trying to leverage it like Flower, then I think a decent amount of good faith should be exercised. The super-social element to this game is important, being an unrepentant hard nose in this context I think leaves a bad impression on other players who will just be turned off seeing their distressed buddy get told to go eat nails for breakfast because he AtE'd. Especially in the context of a designated game for fucking off and doing silly shit, like for example, getting caught day 1 and getting into a gigantic flaming pissy fit about it.
I think it's especially ironic given how much shit I've gotten (not from you) for being too try-hard myself or whatever in Ranked Games. It's like what are we asking for lmao