I am sorry you had to go through that pen pen.
I brought most of the people I love here, I'm not even bothered so no worries~ Post count, power, influence, or even rep were never a thing for me. Shit posting with clever, humorous, and varied individuals was my jam and we still have that.
I even managed to convince my four besties to come along for the ride, I'm content man. I'm good;.