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  1. Ral

    Relationship Advice Thread

    If you lost contact with them then find out who has their contact info. You can also do a little social media searching. Lots of us eventually try to reconnect with past acquaintances because we're human and memories tend to flood in at weird times. Tread carefully though and make sure to add them as a friend first and then message them lol
  2. Ral

    Relationship Advice Thread

    Pretty much this since you have all the pieces in the right places. Usually when you have nothing or barely anything, it's a lot harder to predict rejection and a lot easier to fuck up if the woman doesn't reciprocate the same feelings you have for her. If you know that she does, then she is waiting for you to make the first move. I have dated women who knew instantly that I was apprehensive and didn't wait for me to ask them out and that's how we ended up together. Most times I'd be the one asking them out, but even with women I do know a lot about, you'll always run the risk of knowing more about the bad parts of them as your relationship progresses and you start regretting your decisions later lol. In this case, she sounds interested in your and vise versa so why not give it a shot? I'm an overall anxious person which probably explains why I haven't had a stable relationship in such a long time. I have fears of being cheated on again, rejection, etc, so either my relationships...
  3. Ral

    Relationship Advice Thread

    I have two autistic brothers and know they lack the social cues that a "normal" person would have. I am not autistic, but I have issues sometimes with mixed messages because humans are complex af. In the defense to those that are autistic, it's 10x as hard to navigate these waves vs a person who can tell when someone is or isn't interested in you.
  4. Ral

    Relationship Advice Thread

    How well do you know her? In any case, I would still suggest hanging out and getting to know the real her before making any sorta moves. Gives you time to gauge whether or not she's interested in you. If you already know for sure that she is, make your move, but don't do it so hastily.
  5. Ral

    Relationship Advice Thread

    I wouldn't immediately ask her out, but if you just started as friends, don't rush into things too quickly. Take your time, hang out, gauge if she's actually interested in you, and see where it takes you. I've made plenty of mistakes of asking women out in the past without getting to know them a bit at first and then a few months down the line they turn out to be batshit crazy, insecure beyond normal levels, and possessive lol
  6. Ral

    Relationship Advice Thread

    When you mean "young", what does that entail? What is the age of the woman? Due to obvious reasons, you'll want to avoid seeing or dating someone much younger than you are right now. Even dating an 18-year-old can be frowned upon if you're 10 years older than her. The other reason could be that she may not be mature enough or experienced with relationships and between you and I, it would be in your best interest to avoid those types of relationships. While there isn't anything wrong with dating an immature or inexperienced woman (or person), the gap between immunity and inexperience could leave you open to relationship problems in the future. I am merely talking from experience by the way where I dated a woman that was 21 when I was 25, and it did not last long purely based on the fact that we argued a ton due to her insecurities which I did try my hardest to show her I was honest and loyal. It's hit or miss mostly so make sure you know what you're getting into before pursuing a...
  7. Ral

    Relationship Advice Thread

    Step 1). Don't be a creep, make her feel as comfortable as much as I try to make y'all feel comfortable here Step 2). Bring her flowers, even a single one so that she knows you at least tried Step 3). Bring money or at least bring snacczkzz cause walking = burning fuel Step 4). Don't mention you are part of a FV/NF 2.0 forum Step 5). You will be fine
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