yeah nobody ever actually bypasses it afaik
when Miss Nijimura "lands a hit" on WoU it's actually because her Stand allowed one of Gappy's nonexistence bubbles that he didn't even know he was using at the time to hit him. JoJowiki gets this misunderstood (or they did last I checked) because quite frankly it's extremely subtle and was something I definitely didn't pick up on my first read.
Nobody who sets out to actually kill him survives, Gappy notwithstanding because his attacks "don't exist" for the Calamity to do anything about.
Now, yeah NLF has to be taken into account but as I've said before WoU is basically impossible to debate because of how it's supposed to work. It's a horrible fit for this hobby, it is literally supposed to be weaponizing an abstract concept, but it does so in a way that's impossible to quantify in any usable way unlike Valentine.