step 1: tik tok was a mistake [like every social app currently]
step 2: never trust the chick you want to make a relationship with, until she passes the basic ''tests'', in order for not having a crazy and toxic relationship, this gen of chicks, is something else, that's why you must have testosterone and don't act like a wimp, focus on your goals gents, ignore the distractions, be sharp, try to be on your best shape (both mentally and physically) and leave the rest to God, He will take care of everything else